There are moments in life that seem disastrous when they occur, yet later reveal themselves as unexpected blessings. For me, one such moment came during the bitter winter of 1963. I slipped on the icy ground outside the Butt at Dulwich College—our school’s refreshment room where one could buy a packet of crisps and a bottle of Tizer outside lesson times—and broke my leg.
It was one of the coldest winters Britain had experienced for generations.
I found myself in King’s College Hospital. To make matters worse, the fracture was initially set incorrectly. I had to tell them they had got it wrong. The leg was broken again, a metal pin inserted, and I resigned myself to many weeks of enforced stillness.
Looking back across more than sixty years, I sometimes think that broken leg changed my life.
Until then I had enjoyed music, but I had not yet entered its deeper world. During those long weeks I discovered Rachmaninoff. Something opened in me that has never closed. His music seemed to reveal another world entirely—one of depth, longing, and emotional truth.
At the same time I began to awaken to painting, literature, and the wider landscape of European culture. Hospital gave me something rare: time to listen, to think, and to discover.
When I returned home, the public library became a second education. Its shelves of gramophone records were extraordinary. My first borrowings were Beethoven’s Ninth Symphony and Berlioz’s overtures. I cannot imagine a finer beginning.
Yet there remained one great art that left me unmoved.
Opera.
Whenever the singing began, my interest would simply fall away. I hated Britten and listened dutifully to Monteverdi in Raymond Leppard’s then-fashionable re-orchestrations. Our school music master insisted that Monteverdi marked the beginning of opera. I accepted it intellectually, but not emotionally.
My real devotion lay in orchestral and chamber music, particularly the extraordinary transition between the late Baroque world of Bach and Handel and the emerging classical language of Mozart and Haydn. That transformation fascinated me.
Opera simply was not for me.
Or so I believed.
Gradually, almost without noticing, something shifted.
Jeremy Tambling introduced me to Gilbert and Sullivan. Later, Sandra and I were invited to Glyndebourne. I remember dressing for the occasion, walking through the gardens, eating strawberries and cream during the interval, and feeling I had entered another world entirely. I can no longer recall the opera, but I remember the atmosphere with complete clarity.
The real change came later.
For two pounds one could buy an upper-slip ticket at Covent Garden. Sandra and I would roar into London on my motorbike, park freely, and climb the endless stairways to the highest gallery. There were no lifts. The wooden benches creaked beneath us. None of it mattered.
We were already inside the experience.
It slowly became clear that opera is not something one simply hears.
It is something one enters.
Music, theatre, poetry, architecture, painting, costume, movement, and the human voice converge into a single, overwhelming form. Opera is not music with decoration. It is the place where all the arts meet.
Without ever noticing the exact moment, I had become an opera lover.
There were nights that remain vivid still. I once queued through the night for Joan Sutherland in Massenet’s Esclarmonde. That sense of anticipation, of waiting for something almost unreal, has never left me. Over the years I gathered programmes from every performance, and they now form a parallel autobiography—one written in evenings at Covent Garden, Glyndebourne, Torre del Lago, La Scala, and elsewhere.
Long before I became an audience member, I had stood on the operatic stage myself.
At Cambridge I joined the university opera society and sang—and even danced—in Berlioz’s Béatrice et Bénédict, alongside the delightful Sally Bradshaw, who later became one of Britain’s distinguished Handel sopranos. We also performed Gluck’s Iphigénie en Tauride. Those experiences gave me an early glimpse of opera from within, before I encountered it as a listener.
As the years passed, my tastes continued to evolve.
I was drawn increasingly to Handel and the Baroque world. I met figures such as Raymond Leppard, whose pioneering work in reviving Monteverdi helped reshape our understanding of early opera. Later came interpreters such as Sardelli at Barga who invigorated Vivaldi for a new generation.
Italy changed everything again.
At Torre del Lago we discovered a different operatic world. In those days there was no permanent theatre. Each summer a vast scaffolding structure rose beside the lake, only to be dismantled again at season’s end. During intervals, coffee was served by the Red Cross. It sounds improbable now, but it gave the experience a striking immediacy and humanity. Many still insist those early performances possessed a magic that later splendour cannot quite replicate.
Nearby, at Lucca, the Teatro del Giglio offered a more permanent and equally admirable tradition.
We travelled widely. In Valletta we encountered one of Europe’s most extraordinary survivals: an eighteenth-century theatre of astonishing beauty, where we heard J.C. Bach performed with remarkable freshness. The Camden Festival, too, played its part in reviving forgotten works and composers.
Elsewhere came unforgettable evenings: Catania’s Teatro Bellini, where I heard Pizzetti’s Assassinio nella cattedrale—rarely performed now—and Genoa, where I saw a remarkable Falstaff in a theatre rebuilt after wartime bombing, controversial in its restoration yet unforgettable in presence.
There are still places I have not seen: Venice’s La Fenice, Naples’ San Carlo. Perhaps there is still time.
I have, however, been fortunate enough to visit Wagner’s house in Bayreuth and Bellini’s in Catania. Verdi’s remains on the list.
Yet opera has never been about buildings alone.
There is a persistent misunderstanding in England that opera is elitist. It is not. One often pays more for a football ticket than for an opera seat. In Italy, opera is part of life itself, woven into the fabric of the community.
I remember passing through Modena on the day Luciano Pavarotti was buried. We stood outside the cathedral as his coffin entered, accompanied by flowers and a letter from his family. It was not merely the farewell to a singer. It was the farewell to a man who belonged to the life of his city.
That is what opera means in Italy.
In England, opera was once regarded with suspicion, even as morally questionable in Victorian times. Yet opera is not elitist. If anything, it demands something far rarer than wealth or status.
It demands human generosity.
Understanding.
Compassion.
And love.
So I return always to Mozart.
The Magic Flute remains, for me, the purest expression of what opera can be: wisdom, joy, humanity, forgiveness, and light. And I return also to The Marriage of Figaro, where comedy and philosophy, tenderness and social insight, coexist in perfect balance.
Opera continues to deepen and expand life.
Perhaps that is its greatest gift.
Opera is not simply something we attend.
It is something through which we remember our lives.
It becomes a structure of memory itself—of love, friendship, travel, loss, and discovery.
And in the end, it is inseparable from life itself.
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