My only remaining aunt celebrated her hundredth birthday this month. Regrettably she had suffered a fall shortly before which caused a fracture in her left arm just below her shoulder.
We were unable to attend the event but are assured that it went very well indeed and that it was a truly convivial gathering celebrating a remarkable lady whose professional life has been dedicated to social betterment.
We were also told that, despite her age and her injury, my aunt has still been unable to receive the care to which she is fully entitled as a British citizen.
Evidently, caring is in a very difficult situation in the United Kingdom at present. There just aren’t enough carers around and the waiting list to obtain the services of one is horrendously long. A major reason for this is (wait for it…..) brexit since new rules regarding work permits for non-UK citizens exclude carers from being classified as skilled workers thus causing many former carers from other parts of Europe to return to their country of origin. Ironically, my aunt voted to leave the EU but, clearly, I have no wish to remonstrate with her here regarding that decision.
In Italy there are no such problems with carers. In our own village caring provides a substantial source of income for many women who will also help out with their clients’ needs regarding shopping, cleaning and health requirements. Furthermore, in Italy aged relatives tend to be kept at home as far as possible without being farmed out to ‘case di cura’ (rest homes) which can be expensive here too (though not as stratospherically priced as their British counterparts). This is as it should be for the last thing most of us would wish is to be turfed out of our hard-earned dwelling and institutionalised in a macabrely-named ‘home’.
Indeed, an increasing number of older people from the UK are eagerly emigrating, not just to Italy, but further afield to exotic eastern locations like the Philippines where not only does a balmier climate save on heating costs but also where dedicated full-time carers can be much more easily found.
My maiden aunt has shown an admirably independent state of mind throughout her life and luckily this quality, together with support from good neighbours, will see her through this particularly trying time for her. I cannot help thinking, however, that, with an increasing proportion of our population living longer and becoming more dependent on care, I am probably better off where I am living in Italy than in a bungalow on the Costa Geriatrica in the kingdom of Brexitania.

(Our crisp dawn this morning.)














































































































